I understand that not every date with you can include a shared activity. Privacy matters, and discretion is sometimes necessary. When done right, an in-suite date is an experience entirely its own.
Foreplay Begins in the Details
I love a man who takes the lead and who has thought about our evening before it begins. That kind of intention is one of the most attractive things a person can bring to a date, and it sets the tone for everything that follows.
If you’re looking for a little guidance, consider this your blueprint for making our time together truly memorable
The Room
I love walking into a room that’s already alive: dimmed lights casting everything in a warm glow, something playing softly in the background, a jazz set or something familiar and easy, maybe a movie already queued up for later. And if you’re looking for a place to start – introduce me to your favorite song at the moment. I love that kind of personal detail.
Libations & Little Bites
This doesn’t have to be anything elaborate – even a bottle of still water waiting on the table tells me that you thought about me before I arrived.
And since we’re spending the entire evening in, room service is always a wonderful touch. If you have a favorite restaurant that delivers, even better. Good food, better company, and nowhere else to be – that’s an evening worth having.
The Conversation
I understand that sometimes it can feel tricky not knowing what topics are off limits, and I appreciate that consideration more than you know.
Talk to me about your travels, your favorite food, your passions and hobbies. Show me photos of your animals or somewhere beautiful you’ve been. And if you’re ever drawing a blank – tell me what you’d give a TED talk on!
I have always loved learning about what makes people tick – and I have a feeling you’re no exception.
Our Time Together
One of my favorite things about an in-room date is how unhurried it feels. There’s no reservation to get to, no show starting at a specific time – just the two of us and however the evening wants to unfold.
Perhaps a little role-play. Perhaps a deck of cards on the table or a puzzle half finished that we can pick up and abandon at will. Perhaps a movie playing softly in the background – not necessarily something we’ll watch from start to finish, more of a backdrop to the evening in.
A few things I love: a good documentary that gives us something interesting to discuss, a classic film that feels like slipping into something familiar, or something funny that gives us an excuse to laugh together before the evening finds its quieter moments. Just please – not the news. Never the news!
A Final Thought
Of course, if I happen to be the one hosting, consider the scene already set. I take my own advice seriously 😉
The best in-suite evenings feel like the outside world stopped existing entirely. If that sounds like exactly your kind of date – you already know where to find me.
xoxo, Em
