Em-i-lee Bar-doe

No - my screening requirements are necessary for me to feel safe. I delete all your personal information upon screening you.

I have a NO review policy. Please respect this.

I value punctuality as I’m sure you do too. I grant a 15 minute grace period, but anything more than that will cut into our time together. However, if I am late due to LA traffic, then I will make up that time and more.

If you show up early I more than likely will not be able to start our date early as I will be getting ready to meet you.

Yes, unless we see each other on a regular basis, I require a 25% non- refundable deposit. This is to make sure the booking is genuine. Deposits can be sent by a gift card of my choice, or Cashapp.

Cash only please. Kindly place my honorarium in an unsealed envelope, on the bathroom counter, at the start of our date. If we have plans to meet in a public place first, the envelope may be placed in a bouquet of white roes, in a book/magazine of your choice, or in a gift bag.

Gifts are one of my top love languages, so I would be ecstatic to receive a gift from you! Please view my Wishlist

Yes, for dates 90 minutes or longer. I prefer white wine, though I do also enjoy reds.

I am available to meet you at your upscale hotel of your choice. I can book a place for us, at your expense, if you would rather me put the hotel under my name. I only host clients in my apartment with whom I have built rapport.

I’d be more than happy to! Feel free to view my Blog for date ideas.

I do have friends that I am available to bring with me to a date. If you’d like to schedule a duos booking please inquire via email to see which of my lovely friends is available.

I will always be dressed appropriately and elegantly. If you have any wardrobe requests please do not hesitate to ask as I would love to accommodate them. In the case that I do not have the outfit that you requested, kindly send over a gift card so that I may purchase it.

I do tour occasionally, but would absolutely love the opportunity to fly out to your city! Please view the FMTY page for more info.

For dates three hours or more I require public time to allow for our date to unfold as organically as possible. This can be a shared activity or a meal. For the option to spend the duration of the date indoors, please add $400/ hour and plan on ordering room service.

I am always freshly showed and well groomed and I expect the same from you too. Being squeaky clean is sexy! I have a strong olfactory system and will know if you haven’t showered, so please be a gentleman ;)

I do have texting packages available for communication outside of our date, please inquire.

Yes, I’d be happy to give you two references, 6 months from when I last saw you. For any more than that please send me a small gift card as it takes time to write a thought out reference.

50% cancellation fee will be sent to me through Venmo or PayPal if you canceled our with in 48 hours. The full fee will be required if you cancel within 24 hours of our date. No refunds or applications to a future date if you cancel less than 48 hours prior to the date. For dates cancelled 7 days before the date the deposit may be applied to a future booking. For dates cancelled more than 7 days prior to our date the deposit may be refunded or applied to a future booking.