FAQs

BEFORE:

  • EM-meh-lee Bar-DOH

    My friends call me Em and maybe you can too ;)

  • I warmly welcome those who are new to this world! If you have questions, please feel free to send me an email introduction via my contact form or by clicking here.

  • While I don’t engage in ongoing conversation outside of scheduling, I always welcome a thoughtful & quick message if something brings a smile to your face and reminds you of a moment we shared.

    Should you wish to book another date, I’m just a message away!

  • Any details you provide are handled with the utmost discretion, and once our date has passed, any personal information is permanently deleted and never retained.

  • No - my screening requirements are necessary for me to feel safe. I delete all your personal information after we meet.

  • I currently have a 4-hour package: two, 4-hour GFE (the girlfriend experience) dates.

    Also, I’m happy to discuss bespoke arrangements or recurring dates for those seeking something more consistent.

  • 1) The Girlfriend Experience including Fly Me To You & Drive Me To You as well as a Refreshments Curation en suite.

    2) The Soft Submission Experience

    3) Social Meeting for inquiring, new clients

  • I value your time and ask that you value mine. A 15-minute grace period is offered, but delays beyond that will cut into our time together. If I’m ever delayed (hello, LA traffic), I’ll always make up for it and more.


    If you arrive early, please note I may not be available to begin before our scheduled time, as I’ll be preparing to greet you.

  • I’d be more than happy to! Feel free to view my Blog for date ideas.

  • Yes, unless we see each other on a regular basis, I require a 25% non- refundable deposit. This is to make sure the booking is genuine. Deposits can be sent by a gift card of my choice, or Cashapp.

  • 50% cancellation fee will be sent to me through Venmo or PayPal if you canceled our with in 48 hours. The full fee will be required if you cancel within 24 hours of our date. No refunds or applications to a future date if you cancel less than 48 hours prior to the date. For dates cancelled 7 days before the date the deposit may be applied to a future booking. For dates cancelled more than 7 days prior to our date the deposit may be refunded or applied to a future booking.

    The date is considered confirmed on my end as soon as you send the deposit.

  • You can purchase a physical gift card of my choice from any drug store then send me a picture of it.

  • Yes, they are correct and thoughtfully reflective of my preferences and the quality of experience I offer. My rate structure is intentionally designed with balance, time, and mutual enjoyment in mind.

FAQs

PLANNING & AFTER:

  • I am available to meet you at your upscale hotel (outcall).

    I can also welcome you to my private location (incall). Should it be unavailable on our planned date, I'm happy to meet at an alternative location of your choosing. I can also arrange a location for an additional fee.*

    * This additional fee covers my transportation/ valet plus the total cost of the room.

  • IYes, thank you for being thoughtful!

    I can be sensitive to overly loud environments. If we're planning to dine out, I appreciate ambient environments over loud/ brightly lit spaces so that we can connect and talk with out distraction.

    That said, if we’re heading somewhere lively for dancing or entertainment, I’m all in for the energy and music!

  • I will always be dressed appropriately and elegantly, never raising any eyebrows.

  • Kindly place my honorarium (cash only) in an unsealed envelope, on the bathroom counter, at the start of our date. If we have plans to meet in a public place first, the envelope may be placed in a bouquet of roses, in a book/magazine of your choice, or in a gift bag.

  • Gifts are one of my top love languages, so I would be ecstatic to receive a gift from you! Please view my Wishlist!

  • Please do not hesitate to ask as I may be able to. In the case that I do not have the clothing item that you requested, kindly send over a gift card so that I may purchase it..

    Wardrobe requests are subject to my discretion.

  • I am always freshly showed and well groomed and I expect the same from you too. Being squeaky clean is sexy! I have a strong olfactory system and will know if you haven’t showered, so please be a gentleman ;)

    Kindly wash your hands and use mouthwash (provided) at the start of the date.

  • While the idea may be enticing, I kindly decline shared showers. I take great care in preparing for our time together and will be freshly showered and perfectly polished just moments before we meet.

    I DO however welcome baths in spacious tubs!

  • No. I do not allow any form of photography, videography, or recording—this includes hidden or discreet attempts. Capturing our time together in any way without prior consent will result in the immediate end of our date, and you will be blacklisted from any future bookings.

    This is non-negotiable.

  • My life tends to be delightfully full and a bit sporadic at times. Between travel and personal commitments, I may not always respond right away.

    If you haven’t heard from me within 48 hours, feel free to follow up.

  • I’m flattered you’d want to spend extended time with me. That said, genuine connection and chemistry are nurtured over time, just like trust. To ensure our time away is seamless and deeply enjoyable, I kindly ask that we spend time together beforehand to build a meaningful rapport. Shared experiences become far more fulfilling when they’re grounded in comfort and connection!

  • No, please respect that I have a no- review policy. I value privacy and I hope you do too.

  • No. GFE (the girlfriend experience) does not imply anything explicit or extreme, nor does it include services associated with PSE (Porn Star Experience) or any form of anything unsafe.

  • I do have friends that I am available to bring with me to a date. If you’d like to schedule a duos booking please inquire via email to see which of my lovely friends is available.

  • Yes, I’d be happy to give you two references, 6 months from when I last saw you. Please notify me beforehand so I can keep an eye out for the provider’s email.

  • Ah, yes—this realm of companionship can feel uniquely intimate! Before you start picking out rings, I recommend checking out my blog on boundaries.

    A healthy connection is all about maintaining balance so we can continue to enjoy our time together without any misunderstandings :)

    Our time together is precious and transient; it begins with a soft hello and ends with the tender click of a closing door.